Many people today are afraid of teaching their children the facts of life. However, as parents, we need
to remember that our main job is to prepare our children for adulthood. Below are five topics that are
normally reserved for adults that children need to be trained in.

Relationships

Talking to your children about dating and relationships can be especially difficult for many parents, but
as a television increasingly shows dating of younger and younger kids it is an important discussion.

Start by explaining the seriousness of relationships and that is should be taken very seriously. Explain
that these serious relationships should be postponed until they are old enough to handle them.

Finances

Finances are a major part of our lives, and children need to be trained on how to handle money well.
Giving an allowance for chores can help children learn to associate work with money. If your employer
has “bring your child to work” days, be sure to take advantage of these as well. A good work ethic is one
of the best gifts you can give your children.

Help your child develop good financial habits, such as saving a portion of each week’s allowance. Have
children help you write out the bills every month, and occasionally let them help balance the checkbook.
You don’t need to expose your kids to everything but letting them in on some of the basics will help
them become more responsible and financially secure adults.

Addiction

Our culture values pleasure a great deal, and addiction is a problem on every level of society. New
research is showing that the sugar in sodas and the fat in fast food produce addiction like responses in
the body. Illegal and prescription drug abuse are seen among all segments of the population. Tobacco
and alcohol abuse continue at alarming rates.

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