We’ve all had moments when we’ve encountered blatant rudeness. Someone will
bump into us without saying “Excuse me” or when we answer the house phone, the
person on the other end will demand to speak with someone without saying “Hello” or
introducing themselves.

These are just two examples of what it’s like to live in a world where some people
are simply not very polite. And yet, could you imagine how much nicer it would be if all
of us made it a point to exemplify good manners as a way of being courteous to those
around us?

When it comes to teaching your children how to be polite, this is just one of the
reasons why it’s imperative that you do. It’s not just a way of being respectful to others,
but it’s also an extension of having respect for yourself.
Although there are many things that you can teach a child when it comes to developing
good manners, here are five that are essential for everyone at every age.

Say “Please” and “Thank you”. It’s one of the most common
life etiquette tips, but it’s also one of the most effective. By teaching your child how to
say “Please” and “Thank you”, you are encouraging them to let people know that when
it comes to asking for something, they are willing to nicely do so; that yes, the old saying
is true: “You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.” A “Please” and “Thank
you” puts people at ease, which makes communicating with them, especially when it
comes to something that you want, much easier.

Shake hands and make eye contact. There aren’t a ton of kids
who do either one of these days, but there are some huge benefits to both actions. For
one thing, when you are introduced to someone, it’s always polite to shake hands with
them and look them in the eye as a way of letting them know that you appreciate the
opportunity to meet their acquaintance. At the same time, you’re also teaching your child
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