The Importance of Plushies in Your Child’s Life

September 24, 2019 by Leave a Comment

Kids are always curious about things and are constantly exploring new locations, ideas, and even identities. They absorb new things they discover and are proud of the simple achievements they manage to obtain. The toys and the materials they play with—educational or not—are a big help in their developmental stage. They are stimulants for creativity and imagination, and these help them as they grow older and face the world.

 

One of the favorite toys of kids around the globe are plushies, and they all come in different shapes, sizes, and personalities. These stuffed friends are seemingly always by their side day and night, even in sickness and health. They are like their guardian angels whenever they are scared and their special confidant in their daily lives, but there’s more to these adorable plushies than you think!

 

Despite their adorable appearance and their soft bodies, they actually have a rewarding benefit and can hone your kids’ personality and skills. Children spend the majority of their time communicating with their buddy, and it’s expected that they will form a special bond with that toy. While some simply cling to these adorable plushies, these toys play a vital role in the overall development of the child.

 

Surprising Benefits of Plushies

 

  1. The first step to independence. You might notice that kids without a plushie tend to be clingy or overly dependent on someone else, can’t initiate conversations sometimes, and tend to be aloof. Some kids look at their plushies as a guardian, and it actually helps them do tasks on their own and muster the courage to ask for help.

Plushies are like their small bodyguards when things feel scary, and it’s always nice to have someone to depend on for the simple relief and assurance that it will be okay. They view these adorable plushies as guardian angels ready to take them in whenever they fail or win—thus improving their sense of independence.

  1. A sense of comfort. Do you always understand what your toddlers want to say? What does “macaroni prince mumbo jumbo” mean, and why is it scary? Your children might be too young to express themselves, and even a parent can be utterly lost with their unique terminologies and logic.

But for them, their best friend plushie always knows what’s up, and they are always there to lean on. They tell them their secrets, and sometimes this helps them process what’s bothering them. Their plushie is their partner, and it hones their control over their emotions and their ability to express themselves. This is usually done through role play by themselves or with other friends.

 

  1. Developing their communication skills. They talk a lot with their stuffed buddies since they always seem to listen to their thoughts and rants. As they keep on doing this, they are slowly aware of their own voice and the sounds they make. They might even try to communicate more with you as they might even notice themselves that they improved. It will be a slow process of learning but it’s guaranteed to boost their confidence in talking and making friends. Kids who speak up what’s on their mind tends to be more successful and more sociable if developed properly.

 

  1. A sense of responsibility. Kids are naturally unruly and carefree, but having a plushie by their side gives them an urge to protect their toy. They treat their plushie as a family member and are sometimes closer to it than they are to their own family members. Since they treat their plushies as their guardian angels, they return the favor by protecting them and caring for them at all costs. They tend to do what they think is best for their plushies and treat them kindly whenever they can.

 

  1. Inspiring them to make more friends. Kids with plushies are actually more confident in making friends and confidently talk to them without any hesitation. They gather ideas and courage from the role plays they do with their plushies, recreate scenarios, and experiment with them in their head—and sometimes down to the last detail! While their attempts at speaking may not be perfect, the kids actually want to try harder and strive for success.

 

  1. Helping them understand their emotions. Since kids recreate scenarios and have pretend conversations in their head, it also gives them an idea of why they feel that way and what they need to do to feel better. While their solution doesn’t really make sense to you, it helps them act on what they feel will make things better. It gives them options on what they could do to help themselves, and they slowly learn how to open up.

 

You can also encourage them by asking their plushie questions, such as an emotion associated with your child. Ask the doll why she’s happy or sad, and the child will tell you the scenarios that made them happy and sad. It will give you a better understanding of what your child might be going through.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Visit Barbados. Like, Right now.

September 24, 2019 by 21 Comments

I’ve been obsessed with Barbados since I was a kid, when I read the Newbery Medal winning book “The Witch of Blackbird Pond” by Elizabeth George Speare. For anyone who somehow managed to escape their summer reading, the book is about a fictional 17th Century young woman who, orphaned, must leave her home in Barbados and travel to New England. Now in Puritan Connecticut, she often reminisces about her home and her childhood growing up in beautiful Barbados.

Yes, as an adult, I now realize the colonizer themes that ran rampant in the book. However, the images left in my mind’s eye of the lush and balmy Barbados had impressed on me the desire to make my way over to the tiny island as soon as I was able.  No better time then the present, so we headed over to finally see the nation well known as the birthplace of rum.

Located in the lesser Antilles of the West Indies, in the Caribbean region of North America, Barbados is about a 5 hour flight from New York City.  Just 166 square miles in total, it dwarfs the smallest state in the USA by quite a bit (Rhode Island, at 1,034 square miles), it packs a lot into a small space.

Though she be but little, she is fierce. Alright, perhaps not exactly fierce, but definitely a force. On this wisp of an island, you will experience amazing food (yes, quite a lot of seafood, but vegans and  vegetarians rejoice, there are plenty of options on this very foodie-progressive island), blissful beaches, friendly people, and incredible scenery. No matter what you are interested in, you will find plenty to keep you occupied while you vacation in beautiful and diverse Barbados.

Not ones to lay about the beach and resort all day, we wanted to see as much as we were able to in our (much too short!) stay. Not that lying about has anything wrong with it- you couldn’t pick a more picturesque place to relax and take in the sun and sand. We did our share of lazing, but spent most of our time exploring the island.  The history of the island is as colorful as it’s gardens, and during our stay we enjoyed learning about the island’s first peoples through events in our current time period. Luckily for us, there are some fantastic tour guides who are gracious enough to share Barbadian culture and history with tourists, and they are very thorough. The best part is, the more you learn, the more you want to know.

The Arawaks and the Caribs were the first inhabitants of what became known as Barbados. English Captain John Powell arrived in 1625 and claimed the island for King James I of England. After returning to England and back again, the island was given the name “Los Barbados”, a variation of “Os Barbados”, used by the Portuguese sailors since 1536.  It was named after a tree that grew on the island, the “Bearded Fig Tree” aka  Shortleaf Fig (Ficus Citrifolia) that the sailors thought looked like a bushy beard. As Barbados was named for it’s magnificent foliage, you can rightly assume that the natural beauty surrounding is going to make it hard to put your camera away.

Regardless of what kind of touring or adventure you are after, you are bound to be excited by and admiring of the natural beauty that will envelop you. One of the first tours we opted to take was a walking tour of Historic Bridgetown. This 3 hour walking tour was the perfect introduction to the area, and was led by local professor and historian Morris Greenidge. Extremely passionate, knowledgeable, and just honestly impressive, Mr. Greenidge is “the” expert, called to discuss Barbados and topics that intertwine with the local history on panels and conferences worldwide.

When there was not enough history or information available, Mr. Greenidge just decided rather than lament it, he would research and write the histories himself. Almost all by himself, as well. Self taught, he has researched and written the history of the island from it’s founders to local legends and heroes as well as walking guides and more. (Side note, some of these books are hard to find outside of Barbados, so you may want to buy them while you are there if you like them. Bonus, he will be happy to sign them for you. I regretfully only bought two of his books at the time, and am having a rough time finding some of the others. Lesson learned, hopefully you can avoid my error.) There are not a ton of books out there on the history of Barbados, not many novels either, so they were a good find and give good insight from that of a lifelong inhabitant. As well, I have to admit that after having spent time with Mr. Greenidge, I hear the books in his voice and they are quite a fun and unique reminder of our time spent touring.

Meeting us in dress slacks, crisp shirt, and suspenders on a blisteringly hot day, Mr. Greenidge speaks slowly and deliberately, often pausing in thought, giving an incredibly thorough tour of a place you can see he loves dearly. We began the tour at Chamberlain Bridge in aptly named Bridgetown (the capitol and by far largest city in Barbados) under Independence Arch. The bridge connects Bridgetown over the Careenage aka Constitution River, which cuts the city in two parts. Formerly a swing bridge that was vital to the shipping industry as well as connecting one part of the city to it’s other half, it’s now rebuilt and designed for the current needs of the island- mostly pleasure boating and fishing. Not only one of the oldest cities in the Caribbean, but also a recognized UNESCO World Heritage Site, there is a lot to experience in Bridgetown.

We toured the “best of” and “must see” spots like the garrison, forts, and religiously important buildings, as well as some hidden gems, hearing interesting stories and about local characters, and of course important governmental sites like the Parliament building. We ended our tour in the shopping and restaurant district, which was perfect, as it was indeed lunchtime. Those outdoor cafes are delightful, but if it’s still too hot for you, head indoors and find some air conditioning. Many offer both options.

barbados rum tour

As mentioned, Barbados is the birthplace of rum, which Bajans are quite proud of. There are more rum tours and tastings then you can shake a stick at (because that’s something normal people do, anyway) so you will have to choose your tour(s) wisely. We really enjoyed out time at St. Nicholas Abbey, which is one of the smaller options in terms of distilleries, but the extraordinary house, gardens, and museum aspect more then made up for that. Located in Saint Peter parish, it gives visitors more then just rum. If it were not enough to be a plantation house, museum, and rum distillery in one, St. Nicholas Abbey is architecturally unique as well, as it is one of only three genuine Jacobean mansions in the entire Western Hemisphere. Built in 1658, it has never had anything to do with the Church despite it’s heavenly name, and was always a sugarcane plantation (until 1947). Barbados thinks enough of this location to name it one of the “Seven Wonders of Barbados“, and we agree. It’s absolutely lovely- and yes, you can indeed visit the distillery and taste the rum. 

rum tour barbados

Historical touring and gardens are a “must” in my book, but with the clear, always warm waters that stretch in nearly every direction you turn, I’m guessing at least part of why Barbados calls to you is it’s open ocean. There are as many ways as there are hours in the day to spend time in Bajan waters, narrowing it down might be the hardest thing you do while on your holiday. Of course, beach lounging has it’s place in the sun (so to speak? Pun intended? Sorry, I had to) but while you are here and escaping your ordinary, why not opt for some extraordinary as well? I highly recommend taking the time to go snorkeling or scuba diving. The water is warm and clear as day, the fish and underwater flora are varied and beautiful (and friendly! No fear of humans, and will swim in your oh-so-close proximity),  it’s both a relaxing as well as exciting day. About how many things can you say that? As well, I cannot, cannot recommend taking the Bliss Boat tours enough.  When you book, make sure you head out with Hayden and Emmanuel, they and their crew are the most excellent team. Experienced, fun, easygoing, and the best part- well prepared. Honestly just all around cool people. This was a standout portion of our time in Barbados, and the people made it so as much as the location and tour itself. Hayden and Emmanuel will get you to all the best spots in their glass-bottomed-boat, and while not crowded with other boats or catamarans.  This is important, since you don’t want to be swimming into other people (or have them endlessly crashing into you).

swim with turtles

Not only that, but it makes for better photos and wildlife spotting. There is an excellent chance you will not only see, but swim with turtles (who are treated with the respect and care they deserve). Hayden comes with you and your group, and takes underwater photos that he sends everyone in a Dropbox after the trip for no extra fees. These are beautiful, we cherish them. Visual keepsakes of this amazing time are priceless and quite special, some of the shots are amusing as well. Really- this excursion is one to top the list. Don’t forget to book with Hayden, you will be so thrilled that you did.

barbados boat tour

One rainy day, we decided the best use of our day would be to take surfing lessons. Water above, water below- it was such an interesting experience. We headed out to the deAction Beach Shop, owned and operated by world ranked windsurfer and “Bajan beach culture promoter” (as per self and personal site), Brian “deAction Man” Talma. The word I would use to best describe it would be “groovy”. It was a chill place with a relaxed vibe, covered in art mostly created by Talma himself (some available for purchase) as well as beach and surf paraphernalia. Located in the Silver Sands area, equipment rentals are available, as are lessons. Take your pick of equipment- starboard boards, surfboards, sail models, SUP/ stand up paddle boards, and more are available for rent. Wetsuits are also available if you would like.  After you have signed in, met your instructor, and chosen your equipment (or had it chosen for you), you will all head out to a local beach where there aren’t many swimmers. This is important, because you don’t then need to worry about hitting anyone as you flail about on your watercraft of choice. If you are new to the sport and anything like us, you might not be the most graceful as you learn. We ended up falling off the boards and “into the drink” more often then not, but by the end of the lesson we had each gotten up and stayed up at least a few times. I don’t mean to brag, but one time even making cleanly it to the shore (pinkies up, quite fancy). Clearly, headed for the pros. This was different than everything else we had done while in Barbados- it was physical, it was fun, it was at times silly, and something we had never tried before. It was letting yourself look foolish and perhaps act foolish as well. It made us a little closer by doing this new thing, where we looked goofy and were constantly coughing up ocean water, a good example of a lovely (loving) bonding experience we still talk about and won’t forget.

local art barbados

I could go on for ages about all there is to do and experience in Barbados, and that’s not even touching upon the amazing food (don’t even try to diet) or the laid back atmosphere, the gracious people we were lucky enough to meet and spend time with, the perfect weather (even during it’s bursts of rain, perfection), and of course, more food. I was ridiculous to wait 20 years to visit Barbados, I kept putting it off, because…well, you know. Life. I won’t be waiting 20 more to return. Don’t wait. Book the vacation you’ve been waiting on. Visit https://barbados.org to find exactly what’s calling your name.

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Are You An Overprotective Parent? 4 Ways To Let Go And Let Your Child Grow

September 20, 2019 by Leave a Comment
Good parents want to be involved in their children’s lives, but for years educators and psychologists have been asking the question: How much parental involvement is too much? When does trying to help your children in school, sports, and myriad other ways go too far, hurt their development, and become over-protective?
The explosive college admissions scandal seemed to answer that question. Television actress Felicity Huffman was sentenced to jail for paying $15,000 to influence the boosting of her daughter’s SAT score. Fourteen other parents in the probe have also pleaded guilty.
While most parents don’t cross that legal line, early education expert Christine Kyriakakos Martin says too much parental involvement can be harmful in a variety of ways, sometimes leading to children becoming ill-prepared for the challenges of adulthood.
“The consequences of being an overprotective parent is that your child will lack self-confidence to make decisions and take risks,” says Martin (www.youvegotthisparenting.com), author of You’ve Got This! Keys To Effective Parenting For The Early Years. “They’ll lack the coping skills to get up when they fall down from a bad experience and try again.”
Martin offers four ways for parents to stop being overprotective and promote more strength and independence in their children:
Stop teaching fear. While there are non-negotiables when it comes to teaching your child safety — for example: wearing a helmet when biking, no talking to strangers, no texting when driving — Martin says sometimes parents overprotect when they create too many boundaries, which in turn may teach children to live fearfully. “When you don’t allow them to play outside much, you’re impeding their freedom,” Martin says. “Play develops the imagination and self-confidence. Overprotective parents don’t want their children to fall down, and getting back up and brushing themselves off is a necessary component for healthy growth and development.”
Don’t be their full-time problem-solver.  Martin says many parents want to take care of all of their chidlrens’ problems and make things easier for them. At some point that needs to stop, she says, because adult life is rife with adversity and unforeseen obstacles that we must learn to deal with independently. “Teaching children problem-solving skills encourages them to be independent,” Martin says. “Learning to resolve conflict on their own and work through problems builds resilience and teaches them how to handle adversity.”
Teach responsibility. “If you make their beds and clean their room, you’re doing them a great disservice,” Martin says. “It’s about learning early lessons in responsibility. Doing these things for a prolonged time can debilitate your child and set them up for a lack of life skills as adults. Let your child take on reasonable responsibilities and let them feel a sense of accomplishment.”
Let them branch out. Sometimes parents develop a comfort zone with their child’s pursuits and restrict them when the child wants to expand. “Let your child have some freedom to make some of their own decisions about their interests,” Martin says. “Interests change, and the more varied experiences they have, the better for their ability to make decisions and adapt to different situations.”
“Parents are right to protect their children in a dangerous world,” Martin says. “But having them grow up in a bubble hurts them and their ability to deal with the world as adults. The best thing you can do for your children is to find that balance between protecting them and teaching them to be strong and self-sufficient.”
About Christine Kyriakakos Martin
Christine Kyriakakos Martin (www.youvegotthisparenting.com) is the author of You’ve Got This! Keys To Effective Parenting For The Early Years. An early education expert and consultant, Martin is the founder and owner of Sunshine Preschool in Hopkinton, Mass. She has spoken on child-development topics at national education conventions and colleges.
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Best Beach Wedding Destinations

September 19, 2019 by Leave a Comment

Who doesn’t love the beach? It is definitely one of a child’s fondest memory. When folks think about going to the beach, it is usually done with a fond smile. The beach is often connected to a nice, long, and relaxing vacation where all worldly problems are thrown out of the window. 

Going to the beach is good for us, both physically and mentally. Soaking up the sunlight and getting a healthy dose of Vitamin D is important for your bodily functions. On top of that, going to the beach is usually associated with relaxation which everyone needs after going through the daily stresses of life. 

This is why Beach Weddings are one of the most popular types of weddings. Beaches offer a very chill and relaxing vibe while allowing you and your guests to relax. It is not a secret that planning weddings can be stressful. This is why couples opt for a beach wedding which also act as a vacation, sort of like the light at the end of the tunnel. 

Here we have compiled a few of the best Beach wedding destinations around the world. Maybe you can find the venue for your own special day.

 

  • Bali, Indonesia

 

It would be a great disservice to this beach paradise to not be included in the list of the best beach wedding destinations around the world. Bali is a wonderful island surrounded by countless beaches. 

A beach wedding in Bali will surely be the talk of the town back at home as Bali weddings are one of the most beautiful weddings you can get. There is also a beach resort for everyone. For those who want to mingle and enjoy the nightlife after the ceremony, there is Kuta, which is always teeming with tourists. Couples who lean in more towards a more intimate type of wedding can find themselves a remote beach resort where they can have the best time of their lives secluded from people who they do not know.

These beach resorts also offer extreme water sports and diving which you and your guests will surely love doing before and after your wedding. When you go to Bali, get ready to create memories that will last you a lifetime.

 

  • Maldives

 

Luxurious yet extremely simple, the Maldives is composed of 26 atolls and over a thousand islands. Located in the middle of the Indian Ocean, the Maldives offer its visitors a taste of the good life.

Deciding to get married here is probably one of the best decisions you can ever make. The second you make a touchdown on Maldive soil, it is recommended that you forget all the problems from your life. This is a place of pure relaxation and guilty pleasures.

Your wedding will be a chill party filled with happy and relaxed guests, good food, and of course, stunning views. Maldivian cuisine is so unique that it is guaranteed that you will be leaving the wedding ceremony with an empty stomach.

 

  • The Bahamas Islands

 

The Bahamas Islands is one of the topnotch beach places that you can go to during your vacation. Anyone would be hardpressed to give a list of why one should not go to the Bahamas. Often described as paradise, the Bahamas Islands is made up of 700 islands surrounded by pristine beaches and mesmerizing blue waters. 

Because of its beauty, the Bahamas Islands was hailed as the leading Wedding Destination in 2015. A Bahamian Wedding is known to be lively, romantic, and intimate. Whatever your tastes are, the Bahamas Islands has something for you. Despite the millions of tourists that flock to the Bahamas every year, it doesn’t get too crowded.

The Bahamas Islands is also famous for its sinfully luxurious beach hotels that provide world-class accommodations and service. Indeed, you will be yearning to get back immediately once you’ve gone off this archipelago.

 

  • Punta Cana

 

In the Dominican Republic lies the gem of an island called Punta Cana. This place is famous for its crystal clear turquoise waters and sandy beaches. Top that with the perfect weather all-year-round and you’ve got a paradise just waiting for you and your wedding entourage to come. 

It is no secret that the locals of the Dominican Republic are very hospitable and caring ensuring that you get the best experience out of your stay. Punta Cana Wedding Destinations are becoming increasingly more common, owing to the fact that many are choosing to avoid the mainstream beach locations. 

 

  • Greece

 

Head over to where the stuff of legends come from. With windy weather and clear skies almost 365 days a year, Greece is a perfect wedding destination. Known as the birthplace of democracy and western civilization, it is already a known fact from all over the world that Greece is a paradise. 

Surrounded by immaculate beaches and elegant hotels, I guarantee that you will be able to get the destination wedding that you have been dreaming of. Greek Weddings are known to be full of liveliness and energy. 

If you and your partner are history aficionados and/or academics then Greece is definitely the right wedding destination for you. Even your guests will definitely enjoy this location. 

 

  • Goa, India

 

A wedding in Goa, especially if you do not have Indian blood, will certainly give you and your guests a new experience that you will never forget. Despite Goa being India’s smallest state, it is the country’s richest and most literate. While India gets a lot of bad rep, going to Goa will tell you the opposite. You will not find the hectic, hot, and smelly sceneries usually associated with India in western movies and TV shows here in Goa. 

Instead what you will find is a laidback nirvana. Here, you and your wedding entourage can enjoy at its many golden beaches. Goa also showcases a hodgepodge of Portuguese, Indian and British culture which definitely boosts its exotic atmosphere.

The nightlife in Goa will also not be beaten, giving you and your guests something fun to do when the sun sets. Shopaholics will also find that Goa is one of those places that sell the most interesting of stuff for only a fraction of the price in the West.

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Make The Hotel Concord your base to explore New Hampshire’s fall foliage

September 19, 2019 by Leave a Comment

Summer days are starting to fade away, the air is becoming cooler and the trees in some parts of New Hampshire are already hinting that fall is on its way. The approaching foliage season is a great reason to get outside and experience New Hampshire’s colors. Set right in the middle of the state, Concord NH is the perfect fall foliage base, with great hikes, apple picking, parks and more, all within an easy drive. This fall, stay at The Hotel Concord and explore the Granite State’s vibrant show.

Located on Main Street and only 3 minutes away from Interstate 93, The Hotel Concord is offering a special deal for those who want to make the capital city their base to enjoy New Hampshire’s fall foliage season. The “Live Free and Leaf Peep” package includes an overnight stay in a luxurious upscale Four Diamond Boutique Hotel, a gift certificate to Gould Hill Orchard in Contoocook, late check out of 12 noon and specialty treats like Miss Prindable’s Candied Apple and pumpkin spiced coffee to make this a sweet foliage excursion.

The foliage season runs roughly from late-September to mid-October, and the Granite State offers many ways to experience this amazing time. Just 20 minutes away from Concord, Gould Hill Orchard has sweeping views over the New Hampshire mountains, and an amazing assortment of  traditional and new apple varieties. And the White Mountains, Upper Valley, Monadnock Region and Seacoast are all less than one hour away.

Take a cruise aboard M/S Mount Washington and see the breathtaking juxtaposition of the colorful leaves and the water. Or, take the train through the trees and see the view aboard the world-famous Mount Washington Cog Railway. Any foliage leaf peeping trip can be combined with a visit to one of the many state’s attractions, and there are enough activities to fill up a weekend.

And there is plenty to do in the city, too. In Concord, fall kicks off with the Capital Arts Fest, a weekend of exhibitions, performances and art on the street combined with great food and local beer. Between September 27th and 29th, the League of NH Craftsmen brings together artists and craftsmen from all over the state to Main Street in Concord to celebrate creativity. Every Saturday you can visit the Farmers Market and the Arts Market at Bicentennial Square, which goes on until the end of September. The forests around Concord are also great hiking spots and help avoid the crowds at the more popular New Hampshire mounts.

“Live Free and Leaf Peep” is priced at $299 for double occupancy and does not include tax. Every package offered at The Hotel Concord includes turn down service with robes, slippers, Astor chocolate, customizable music and lighting.

https://www.hotelconcordnh.com/

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5 Things Foster Parents Should Know About Navigating The Court System

September 19, 2019 by Leave a Comment
The important role foster parents have in a child’s life expands significantly when they go to court.
To make decisions in a child’s best interest, judges need good information, and foster parents ideally can provide that. Thus, foster parents having a complete understanding of how to participate in court goes a long way toward ensuring a safe, loving home for the child.
Here is a priority list foster parents should know in advance of a court appearance.
  • Be prepared. Foster parents are the voice for the child and must do everything they can to ensure that the child is heard in court. Do not come to court unprepared. The more information you bring, the better.
The judge largely depends on the foster parents’ testimony to decide what’s in the child’s best interest. The idea is to have enough information so you can answer the judge’s questions in a clear and beneficial way. To prevent being overwhelmed with documents days before court or scrambling for information, the best way to prepare is to begin keeping a journal well in advance. Taking notes about what happens in your foster child’s life creates an organized record, showing progress, behavior patterns and how they express themselves in different situations. Include school records and doctor’s appointments as well as notes about interactions between the child and their birth parents. Include highpoints, lowpoints, and milestones in the child’s development while in your care.
  • Know your rights as a foster parent. Foster parents should receive notices of all hearings. If you are not getting them, contact your social worker and/or a juvenile department clerk.
Foster parents also have a legal right to attend review hearings, usually held every six months, until the foster child receives permanency or the case is closed. They also have a right to attend permanency hearings and post-termination of parental rights (TPR) hearings. Permanency hearings have to be held before a child reaches one year in foster care, then every six months. Post-TPR hearings are held every six months until the child is in a permanent home.
  • Should you bring the child to court? This decision is often left up to the social worker. What’s most important is what’s in the best interest of the child. If the child is uncomfortable going to court, it’s worth considering having he or she write a letter to the judge.
  • Educate yourself on common questions. There’s a list of questions judges commonly ask of foster parents; some of those questions can be found on websites under “foster care hearings.” Examples: How long have you been a foster parent? How long have you known this child? What changes have you noticed in the child’s behavior or emotional state since being in your home? How is the child doing in school? Let your social worker or attorney guide you and ask them any questions you may have, including what the objective is of the specific hearing you’re attending.
  • Speak respectfully and concisely. Don’t get emotional in your discourse with the judge, and don’t throw the birth parents under the bus. The court listens best to foster parents who have tried to work well with birth families and who aren’t on their own agenda, such as getting the child to stay permanently in their home. Speak up and speak clearly, and refer to the judge as “Your honor.” Be as clear and complete as possible so the judge will have sufficient information to make a decision.
One of the most important duties for a foster parent is to act as an advocate for the child in their care. That requires the foster parent to be able to tell the court all they know to help the court decide the child’s future.
Jennifer Lynch, author of the children’s book Livi and Grace (www.jenniferlynchbooks.com), is an educator and child advocate who serves as a guardian ad litem, a person appointed to represent a child’s interests in a court case. She has worked as a special education teacher for an elementary school and as a preschool teacher. In addition, Lynch created the You Are Good brand of T-shirts and other products for sale and for donations. Thousands of the shirts have been donated to children and teenagers in the system. She holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Texas A&M University. 
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5 Best Places In The World For Leisure Activities

September 17, 2019 by Leave a Comment

Family time is difficult to come by in today’s era of busy schedules. That is why when you do, you should make the most of it. There are many leisure activities you can take part in at different global holiday destinations.

Take your times to research on different options before settling on your agenda. Do you have an entire month to yourself? If so, then, pack your bags and go to Portugal for an Algarve golf holiday.

The beauty of traveling to new places is that you get to experience life in a new environment. Everyone needs to take time off their normal day to day life and travel to somewhere new.

Visiting the world’s top holiday destinations allows you to experience different cultures. If you’re lucky, you can even spark lasting friendships.

Here are the best places in the world for leisure activities you should consider visiting.

  1. Algarve, Portugal

Algarve, Portugal is well-known for playing golf. It is a popular sport that’s excellent for relaxation and rejuvenation over the holidays. If you’re a golf lover, you’ll appreciate the golf community in Algarve, Portugal.

Algarve has favorable weather that allows you to enjoy the outdoors the entire time you’re there. You can get the best out of your holiday by mixing golfing with an amazing beach holiday.

Imagine having more than 50 golf courses to choose from? Algarve has golf courses with amazing architecture, and you’ll always have people to play with.

  1. Grand Canyon, USA

Grand Canyon is an excellent holiday destination, as it is located the USA’s greatest natural wonder. The national park celebrates its 101st birthday this year. You and your family can spend quality time hiking the corridor trails. You can also enjoy the beautiful scenery from an overlook.

Most families go for the Grand Canyon Railway ride; it’s a thrilling experience that your kids will live to remember. The best part is the destination’s easy access to accommodations. You don’t have to worry about squeezing into one bed because rooms have run out.

  1. Tokyo, Japan

Did you know that Japan will be hosting the 2020’s world Olympics in Tokyo? When you settle on visiting Tokyo, consider visiting the Imperial Palace on your to-do list. You’re going to need a to-do list because there’s so much to see in Tokyo.

You can also visit Ginza district and get souvenirs to remember your stay in Japan. Ginza is Tokyo’s busiest shopping area, and you’re bound to get anything you’re looking for.

Not to forget the Sensō-Ji temple, which is an exquisite shrine with a rich history.

  1. San Juan, Puerto Rico

Puerto Rico is an excellent holiday destination for beach lovers. San Juan is a sun-drenched island that’s excellent for newlywed. You and your loved one can spend your honeymoon basking in the sun and enjoying the exquisite local cuisine. You can enjoy the warm azure waves and interact with the friendly locals.

  1. Toronto, Canada

Toronto is a diverse city and home to different tourist attractions. You get to visit the famous CN Tower and spend time on Toronto Island. You’ll find no shortage of things to do, and the best part is the city center, which is relatively easy to navigate.

You can start by visiting Niagara Falls and marvel in its beauty. There are also museums and galleries where you can learn about Canada’s rich history. As an art lover, you’ll appreciate the galleries collections.

Conclusion

Finding time to relax and spend time with the people you love is very important. It’s always good to take time off your busy schedule to appreciate the world’s beautiful holiday destinations.

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How To Get Flawless & Great Skin- 10 Secrets Of Women With Great Skin

September 17, 2019 by Leave a Comment

Every woman has her own routine, however only few women have great skin.

Why you ask? Well, it’s because having great skin is a high maintenance routine that some of us just don’t have time for. The thing of it is, you can do something to help yourself get glowing skin. Follow these guidelines for the secrets of women with great skin:

1. Diet

There’s a ton of foods that are good for your skin. Try strawberries for their super dose of vitamin C. Almonds are a great source of vitamin E which is noted as an impressive sun blocker. One doctor from the dermatology department at Yale University, Jeffrey Dover, M.D., associate clinical professor, stated that “Vitamin E acts as an antioxidant that helps to protect skin cells from UV light and other environmental factors that generate cell-damaging free radicals.”

The overall idea is to find foods that are rich in skin favorable vitamins and antioxidants. 

Also, stay away from foods such as Carbonated Drinks, Rye, Wheat, and Dairy Products etc as they often lead to abdominal bloating which might cause acne and breakouts. The more powerful the food, the more powerful the results.

And by all means don’t forget to incorporate at least sixty four ounces of water into your daily diet.

2. Vitamin C and Multi-Vitamins

Research shows that people who eat foods rich in Vitamin C have fewer wrinkles and less age related dry skin than those who don’t.
Vitamin C can provide a range of benefits to keeping your skin looking younger, longer.

  • Reduce the appearance of brown spots and other types of sun damage
  • Helps boost healthy collagen production
  • Reduces inflammation and irritation
  • Fades post breakout red marks by improving skin’s natural healing response
  • Increases the effectiveness of your sunscreens and boosts your skin’s defense against UV exposure

And of course you need to be taking Multivitamins anyway.

3. Exercise

Take note that excessive cardio can actually cause your skin to lose its elasticity. You’ll want to focus on muscle building exercises if you’re trying to actually tone your skin. Yes, you can actually tone your skin…

With exercise, you are also increasing the blood flow to the living layers of your skin. Opening up sweat glands can push out some of what clogs pores too.

4. Sleep

Beauty Rest is no cliche statement ladies. With proper rest you should experience fewer wrinkles in your middle to older age. Skin makes new collagen when you sleep, which prevents sagging. Patricia Wexler, MD, a dermatologist in New York says that more collagen means skin is more plump and less likely to wrinkle. She goes on to mention that just five hours per night of sleep can lead to twice as many fine lines as sleeping seven hours. More sleep essentially leads to clear, hydrated skin.

5. Stop Picking and keep your hands off your face

It’s inevitable that you’re going to get a blemish or three from time to time. You must learn to keep your hands off your face. Picking and touching are key factors in causing pores to clog, furthermore allowing dirt from your fingers and hands and nails onto your face. Ewww. Don’t do it… Just don’t do it.

6. Wash Regularly

Make sure you’re washing your face after a workout and before bed, not to mention – it couldn’t hurt when you wake up in the morning. A quick splash of cold water is a great way to excite your senses. Use mild soaps and water. If you suffer from acne, there are various washes available on the market specifically designed to treat acne.

7. Exfoliate

Exfoliating is essential for healthy, bright skin. Focus on the dry spots concentrating on the places where your complexion is especially dull.

Make sure you’re only rubbing your face in upward, circular motions. Wash your face with warm water and then gently pat dry with a towel. Don’t forget the moisturizer afterward.

8. Use Protection

Hats, Long Sleeve Shirts and Jeans may not be the answer but make sure you’re using at least 15 SPF Sunscreen or a moisturizer with sunscreen mixed in.

9. Honey Scrubs

There are many ways to use honey for your face. It’s loaded with antioxidants and other nutrients to help battle carcinogens and other radicals that enter your sensitive facial skin on a daily basis. Do your homework. A general recommendation is to rub 1 part honey to 1 part sugar (just a dab of each really should do)…mix it in the palm of your hand and rub it into your face, avoiding your eyes. Rinse with warm water. But feel free to leave the scrub to soak into your skin for 15 minutes or more.

10. Choose Skin Products Wisely

Try to avoid the grocery store cosmetics section and opt to spend a few dollars extra on the face products you’re investing in. That’s right, your face, your skin, your body. You’re investing in something viable here.

You might consider Rodan and Fields, which offers a range of products for your skincare regimen, and it’s also amongst the popular choices on the market.

As always, you should discuss any dietary changes and exercise routines with your doctor as this might play a significant role in your skincare routine as well. 

You might consider having a conversation with your dermatologist about any new products you’re trying to be sure your skin is compatible.

So women, now you know the 10 secrets of women with great skin.

What are you thinking about now? Just go ahead and start following these secret tips into your daily routine.

So, get to it you can do this!

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